Libido Challenged?
An Outline Of Things To Consider
To Improve Your Love Life And Your Partner's
PSYCHE
- Stress, perhaps number one problem these days
- Depression, a close second, and part of the downward spiral
- Body Image, acceptance of ourselves, and ability to make some changes
- Abuse, definately difficult to overcome, but help is available
- Society, lotsa little things pressuring people mostly in wrong directions
- Work, unemployment, hate job, hate boss, travel time, weather, tiredness etc.
COUPLES
- Bad Feelings, everything from failure to communicate to swearing
- Bad Sex, lotsa room for mistakes in judgement and technique
- Vitality Quotient, how high you are on life, its contagious
- Spirit, reaching deeper and higher into meaning of life together
MEDICATIONS
- Alcohol, the number one cause of sex disfunction
- Smoking, the number one cause of impotence
- Birth Control Pills, often make one feel uneasy or queasy at times
- Hormone Replacement , similar to BC pills, make it tricky for older folks
- Prescription Drugs, a wide variety of them cause problem side effects
- Street Drugs, may be great at first, but big problems soon set in
DISEASES
- Diabetes, difficulty with energy levels and other effects
- Chronic, very hard to overcome, special courage and support needed
- Cancer, not just tumors, but fear and treatment effects
- Auto-Immune, arthritis, and variety of others all cause problems
- Surgery, about any type of effect, mental and physical, before and after
- Scars, from disfigurement to actual genital problems, pain and function
- STD's, scary epidemics of 50 diseases running rampant
PAIN
- Head Aches, not just an excuse, but a real turn off
- Heart, angina and other pains make real exertion difficult to dangerous
- Back, makes most sex impossible, but some positions still work usually
- Genital, numerous causes and not many cures
MEN
- Impotence, various dysfunctioning, mental, chemical, physical
- Sexuality, various levels of gayness or bisexuality can interfere
- Grossness, yes, men are often quite gross, and that's a turn off, hygiene etc.
WOMEN
- Corporate Ladder, higher a woman climbs the lower the libido new study suggests
- Periods, perhaps the most common problem for women's libido
- Children, seem to affect women's love life more than they do men's
- Menopause, tricky but effects on sex life can be mitigated
For Further Info:
Dr. Kemeter, Institute of Reproduction
CA Fertility Clinics
Dr. Ruth, he he he
Institute of Transsexuality, switch sides?
Cindy Margolis, oh yea baby :-)